the paradoxical thing about finding your person is that it’s a process of elimination. U are ruling out literally every person on the planet other than your future husband or wife.
that process can disheartening. it seems like fewer and fewer people are a possible match. your expectations and needs are getting more and more strict, specific. and it may seem like there isn’t a person in the world who fits your criteria.
and yet, as Rich’s mom says, “every pot has a lid”